Monday, August 20, 2012

7/27: Pinturas y Playeras

"Man, it's a hot one, like seven inches from the mid-day sun..." Santana and Rob Thomas were the soundtrack to my night, as the fan in my room made angry noises in the middle of the night so I turned it off and woke up a little toasty without the moving air. But the warm weather meant a perfect day for our first truly touristy experience, an afternoon at one of Nicaragua's beautiful beaches! My host mama asked what type of traje de baño I was going to wear, as standards of modesty vary widely between countries and cultures, but for us extranjeros, foreigners, bikinis are just fine. And she was so excited for me to be able to go - it is a treat for the average Nicaraguan. She said she had not been in seven years, and she will not be able to go for several more, when the kids are older. Many other host families were considering taking their delegates to the beach on family day as well, so some of our group would have twice the opportunities to get swept out to see by the famed undertow we were consistently warned about. 

Before we would cool off in the refreshing Pacific, we got to get a little dusty and messy with art projects - my favorite! We drove to Taller Xuchialt, Xuchialt workshop, the community art collective supported in part by PML.

Paintings hung everywhere inside, including this one on the ceiling that references the indigenous sun god like we had seen in the Catholic church in Sutiaba. The name Xuchialt itself is the original nombre indígena, indigenous name, of this pueblo, but the Spanish could not pronounce it so they named the town Sutiaba. The founders of Xuchialt wanted the community to embrace its indigenous roots in name, symbolism, and forms of dance, music, and art. 

This one was particularly close to home, as it combined symbols and elements from León and Minnesota to highlight the exchange relationship between Xuchialt and Perpich art school in Golden Valley, Minnesota, not too far from where I live!

Lenon, the sub-director, and a couple of profes who were probably in their mid-twenties gave us a brief overview of this workshop that promotes culture, is youth-run, and all volunteer. They have classes for guitarra (guitar), danza (dance), pintura (painting), and sometimes other subjects, depending on who, Nicaraguan or foreign, is available to teach them.

It has been a trying journey in its six years for its importance to be recognized by the community, but Xuchialt has done so well that some students who have graduated from here have become art teachers themselves. The teachers had all started as students, and with the support of projects like Minnesota/León were able to make this art school. They worked hard to get certification from Managua so that Xuchialt's students who take classes and earn certifications can see those achievements transfer almost anywhere else in the country, especially in better schools in Managua. And so you readers know, part of PML's ongoing financial support is dedicated to sponsoring scholarships to kids who want to attend classes here but may not be able to afford materials or the mensual fee of 70 cordobas, so if you are supporting PML, you are supporting the chance for youth in this community to learn and master beautiful, traditional forms of art! The teachers themselves completely volunteer their time and say they are "paid in satisfaction." Furthermore, when they sell their own work in the gallery, ten percent goes back to the school itself.

To see an example of some of the work done by the profes themselves, we went across the street for a tour of this enormous mural they collaborated on with students as well. Stretching down the block, it invoked symbols vital to Nicaraguan cultural history and cultural present, starting with the indigenous jefe, cacique Adiac and the tamarind tree (which Lenon and Meredith are standing in front of in the picture below). He was a proud indigenous warrior who defended his pueblo against the Spanish, only to be captured and hanged in the enormous tamarind tree, and this tree fell only three years ago after over five hundred years of life. Other symbols weave the histories and tales of indigenous and Spanish heritage, embracing tradition and encouraging today's generation to learn and understand their history.


In this section of the mural, the ferris wheel and carousel are a display of the fair of St. Lucia, linked to more traditional images to the right, the myths of the golden crab, other indigenous gods, and a big black snail, the source of the name Xuchialt/Sutiaba and a source of calories back in the day.

Another theme was how language is evolving through technology advances, as this scene celebrates accessibility of sign language, and another highlighted a mobile phone with messages in the native indigenous language. So in terms of modern communication, "The medium has changed but the message has not," my papa said.

This mural was pretty spectacular. Seriously. And the wonderful thing is they have room to keep expanding down the next block of blank wall, but that would take some funds to pay for the bureaucratic processes for that space...

With all its focus on indigenous heritage, the main style of painting Xuchialt promotes is called pintura primitivista, or primitivist painting, which became popularized especially during the revolution. In this style, you paint vivid nature scenes using simple, bright colors, and what really defines not only the genre but your own work is painting the trees leaf by leaf, and how you paint your leaves becomes your firma, your signature. Primitivist paintings can have a tendency to look rather busy, as they try to include a lot of details and animals, rocks, people, and plant forms in the scene.

Lenon demonstrated for us as he talked, and he whipped up this amazing primitivist painting in just ten minutes! We would all get a raffle ticket to possibly win his demo, but first, we would get to paint on our own! With some help from the profes...

Dad is inspired by Lenon's paintbrush placement for safekeeping (tucked within the curls) and also by Profe Soany's young daughter's skills and tips.

Our coordinadora Meredith became fotografa, our photographer, while we worked! I like bright colors and sunsets...

Pastor Don getting up close and personal with his painting.

Kira pondering her next element to add.

Leif putting his firma on the trees.

Lenon thought my painting could use a little more life, so he painted a garza, a heron, and then I attempted to paint another one reflected across it. I was pretty pleased with the result - thanks for the help, Lenon!

Thanks to some technique tips and added elements on our pinturas from the profes, we turned out a pretty decent batch of art! Not pro by any means, but at least we passed and could move on to the next exercise: alfombras de aserín, sawdust carpets. The reddish-brownish sawdust was used as the base for the carpet already laid out for us on the floor, and then a naturally whiter, more color-absorbant sawdust they dyed with a couple of our youth volunteers to make red, teal, yellow, blue, purple, black, and green. This art form is part of a hundred-year-old tradition unique to the city of León, passed down within families, and is now being disseminated throughout the country. Apparently it used to be that only on Good Friday would residents have a competencia, a competition, on a certain "Calle de Alfombras," street of carpets. This competencia has been a great way for the school to obtain some good press and standing within the community as out of over a hundred carpets, Xuchialt has gotten third and first in the last couple years!

Here Lenon shows us a small demonstration, and a dolphin leaped out of the sawdust in a matter of seconds it seemed.

We split into adults and kids (I was considered an adult for this one) and had our own little competencia. My team continued on the sea creature theme Lenon had started, we got to use some shells in our design as well, and our hands got dyed.

Don intently filling in the water as "Time's up!" was called.

Meanwhile, Zoany's daughter had changed into beautiful traditional garb to perform a folk dance for us following our alfombra contest.


Here's the youth team with Francisco helping and Zoany's daughter looking on. The kids decided to go with a theme of many of the symbols and myths we had been learning about, including a couple of their inside jokes from all they had learned.

Messy is best in my book!

She's so cute, looking at her mama the whole time as she took pictures. Accompanied by traditional guitar, recorder, and singing, she showed us a thing or two (that we would have to learn how to do in the coming days in our own folk dance lessons!)

Following this interlude, we had our profes and anyone else who wanted to judge the teams (our coordinators, other PML board members who showed up at Xuchialt, etc...) put in their votes, and adults won, no big deal, over the protests of the teenagers. To come full circle, after carpets are made and finished, they must be destroyed. Thus, carpet-wrestling...

... and carpet jumping!

Our final contest of the day was the raffle for Lenon's demo painting, so we were all instructed to draw slips of paper out of a little bag. While a raffle in our culture is perhaps more indicative of our tendency toward instant gratification and the first person's number drawn is the winner, here, they pick one number that loses, a second number that loses, and then the third number is the winner. And mine was the third number! I won a hug from Lenon and his painting to take home, ¡que suerte! (What luck!)

Many of us also bought paintings or t-shirts made by Xuchialt and its profes for more souvenirs from León and to support the school, so I actually would return home with three paintings: one I did that Lenon helped me with, Lenon's demo, and another in the shape of Nicaragua with nature scenes. We thanked our profes profusely, and then had a half hour drive to become playeras: beach-goers.

 Suyapa, our lunch and afternoon destination, is a restaurant in the price range of many tourists but not many Nicas. The seafood here is supposed to be good even though León is not known for it, so many of us opted for something del mar, from the sea, while others got excited to have their first non-rice-and-beans, possibly American cuisine since leaving home. I was a personal fan of camarones a la plancha, grilled shrimp, with sides of vegetales and patatas, vegetables and potatoes. The youth may have been comforted by spaghetti, but perhaps the adults were moreso by the music selection of mainly American music from the '80s - Dad at one point exclaimed, "I have to come to Nicaragua to hear 'Love Shack'?!"

I ended up sitting next to and conversing mainly with Idalia, one of the board members and actually one of the fundadoras, founders, of PML. She gave me the PML spiel and how it started in the mid-80's as a cooperative learning how to build houses and take care of that community need with support from Nancy, a Minnesotan dedicated to serving León and working together. Idalia also gave me her Herbalife spiel, joking that after her husband passed away, she married Herbalife, a line of nutrition supplements and products she now swears by and tells many friends and acquaintances about. She said there is simply not much knowledge in society about what people are eating, the amount of unhealthy fats in the diet, quantity of food, and necessity of fruits and vegetables. Idalia swears by Herbalife products and say she is lighter, healthier, more energetic, and she is spending less money on food. It is great she has found what works for her and is working to spread nutrition awareness to her fellow Nicas - if you're intrigued, here is the Herbalife website: http://www.herbalife.com/

After some pleasant food and conversation, it was time to enjoy this heavenly black sands beach.   

Our boys, Leif, Cody, and Chris jumped straight into the salt water.

Meanwhile, Paul, Dad, and Francisco tossed a frisbee in the sand...
  

... and they got our bus driver, Jose, in the game!

Francisco making Jose run a little bit.

 These black rock formations and sparkling tides were just incredible.

The boys took off running to go exploring the rocks, so I followed them to take some pictures and do a little climbing myself.

Herculean poses. 

"Look, a crab! Oh, I think it's dead..."

Luci and Kira got in on playing in the tides too.

Jennifer and I then left the kids to take a lovely beach walk all the way to a lagoon that forbade us from walking any further as we could have been pulled out to sea. But it was a lovely, relaxing walk and nice to get to know Jennifer better! 

 I had put my camera away after taking pictures of the teenagers, but Jennifer had brought hers on our walk and wanted to make sure I had proof I was here, so here I am!
 
 When we got back to the group, I tried to convince my dad to do one of my favorite beach activities that I had been fortunate enough to do on the beaches of Rio as well, some beach sprints! Running long distances is not my thing, but I love a good sprint. Plus, running barefoot on sand is a harder and more natural workout. I threw out the idea to the group, and I was pleasantly surprised that Don said he would come, and then Leif and Cody, and then Joy all joined in. We did a nice jog the opposite direction Jennifer and I had walked, and I turned around and Francisco had come along too. For a while we just stood in the tide, letting the sand cover our feet and sinking into the earth. Eventually we headed back, Leif hit a real sprint so I took off chasing him and then did a couple more sprints back to our camp with Don. To cap off the afternoon, a few of us got some fudgesicles and a few of the adults had their Toñas and margaritas. 

Overall, it was a lovely beach experience. It was not overrun with umbrellas, the ocean water was warm, and it was just so chill. And it really was great that Jose joined us for both lunch and frisbee. Especially people in positions of service and perhaps lower classes do not expect invitations or perhaps feel comfortable as part of the group, so he waits for an invitation from us and I'm glad our group has tried to make the effort to include him - he's pretty great!

Speaking of Jose, on our ride home, our microbus had a bit of an encounter. I so wish I had been able to capture this on camera, but we were barreling around a curve on the highway and had to slow down behind a truck, which would normally be no big thing. However, this time the truck swerved around a campesino walking his bull. On the highway. The truck veered left to cross over the center line and zip back to the correct side of the highway, and Jose went left to try to curve around the now trotting bull as well. It was kind of a close call, but Jose made it back to our lane to hollers and roller coaster effects in the back of the bus, only to see two men on bikes coming down the hill and zipping straight for the bull. We all turned around to see what would happen and were thrilled to see the bikers react quickly enough to split and go completely around this traffic impediment. Meanwhile, the campesino ran after his bull, whipping it for its disobedience. Crisis averted.

We arrived about ten minutes early, and when Paul's host mom/my host aunt Jessica arrived, she was all bubbly that the goodbye dinner my dad's host family had invited my host family and me to (because my dad was leaving at the end of this first week) was no longer just with our two families but was turning into more of a surprise party. So people were trying to keep it hush-hush without my dad hearing about it, and family by family headed over to my dad's home after they got to go home and change out of beach clothes first. But because my host family and Paul's lived so far away, my host family was on the way and we just helped set things up as other families brought their food to add to the feast. The kids stayed playing outside in the street, so I soon joined them with the other youth to play catch, frisbee, monkey in the middle, and other silly games until we were all called in to eat.

My host family actually did not even arrive until after Doña Patricia, my dad's host mom, had made sure everybody had a plate of food and then there was still food to spare for Jenifer and her three boys. Unfortunately it seemed the word had not gotten to Jennifer's, Don's, or Kira's families, so we missed them for the night, which was too bad! Doña Patricia's house was indeed overflowing with people and food, but we could have made some space for sure.

Gathering to eat.

Joy playing with one of her adorable host sisters.

My papa and his host family.

After we all had been fed, the youngsters wanted to run back outside to play, but my papa called everybody's attention to make a "flowery" thank-you speech, and I attempted to translate as best I could. He just wanted to share how meaningful of an experience it was for him even though just one week and that he was sad to leave. I helped him thank las cocineras, the wonderful cooks, his familia, and everybody else who made his special despedida, goodbye party, possible. Hopefully my papa and I will both get a chance to come back some day.

Thankfully we got an opportunity to take a group photo (sadly missing Don, Kira, Jennifer, and their families) - here's the crew!

We wanted to get a picture too. Here's my host mom, Jenifer, in the middle holding Diegmar, me holding Diederich on the left, Jessica on the right holding her son Derrick, and Diddier down in front, missing the photo memo. 

As families peeled out, we stayed for a little while to help clean up, and Jenifer asked if she could take a couple chimbombas, balloons, home for her boys, which definitely made easier the longer route home with the stroller. The boys were a bit rowdy, so at least we had eaten before we got home because that would have been more craziness for Jenifer to deal with. She still had to cook for Douglas, and plus, it was his birthday! But he still would not be home for a while, and before the boys got tired out, a couple other random boys from the community came over and they all played with the balloons outside. 

The oldest was about seven and really nice, and he sat and talked to me for a few minutes. I could actually understand him, unlike my silly host brothers! And in contrast to his more mature friend, Diddier, the four year-old, decided to bust out some sass with me because he thought I understood nothing... He threw some insults at me basically to test my comprehension, and I definitely understood him laughing after saying I danced like a cow and then moving on to some less savory words that are not fit for my blog, nor for spilling out of a four year-old's mouth. "Where did you learn those words, boy?" was all I could think, and I indeed asked him where he got that from and Jenifer said he has taken to following a couple of rebeldes, a couple older rebellious boys at school, and she desperately hopes he will grow out of it. Fingers crossed.

Eventually Douglas got home and the boys fell asleep, so I just hung out with my host parents for a while until bed, talking about various life topics. Things I learned:
- "Cuando esté seca, lo todo cuesta más" - when it is dry, everything costs more (in reference to foodstuffs). 
- Here the nannying situation is the reverse from what it is in the States. In the U.S., nannies are hired by families who can afford them, while here, nannies are typically for poor families in which the moms have to work to support them. 
- According to Jenifer, medicamentos (medications) are expensive, but the ones insurance makes cheaper no curan, they don't cure. Some people really cannot afford the meds they need, but Jenifer says "Sufro cuando otros sufran" (I suffer when others suffer), so even though she needs to help her family by running her farmacia, she gives them to people in exchange for what they can afford to pay.

I had actually intended to sleep after showering, but my fan was apparently still being fussy, so Douglas took it apart and attempted to fix it, and Jenifer and I ended up talking until 1. Off for a good night's rest we went!

Sunday, August 19, 2012

7/26: Bat Cave and Chicken Coop

Those of sleeping in the living room fell asleep to Francisco's ghost stories, and while well-intentioned, they were hardly as sleep-disturbing as Paul, Chris, and my dad's overnight experience. In the middle of the night, I woke up slightly to see Paul and Chris tiptoe into our room and wrap themselves up on the hard floor, waking up slightly again each time someone let daylight into our room a few hours later but turning over until I had to figure out how to dismount my suspended hammock. When I did finally wake up, I woke up almost voiceless. I had been sleeping two hammocks over from the kitchen, which was already blazing with its wood-burning stove preparing another meal of tortillas, rice, and beans, and so I had been inhaling the warm smoke for a couple hours! Nothing some beautiful Talolinga fresh air outside could not remedy, though.

When most of us were up and moving, we got to hear the saga that was the night of the men in the back room. Apparently their sleeping quarters had undertaken a serious invasion from the morcielagos, the bats! And on top of that, when they took refuge on our living room floor, the chickens who had come in with their babies the night before thought it would be fun to snuggle with them too. So a less-than-peaceful night for these guys, but a story to tell.

And I had absolutely no idea until my dad told me that when Paul and Chris slept on the floor across the room, he slept directly underneath my hammock! But he had popped out early, along with Jennifer and Laurie, to meet Doña Angela's husband to try their hand at milking cows (pun semi-intended). My papa came back beaming and excited to learn more about the community agriculture with the rest of us.

Here's Jennifer getting a demonstration.

Doña Angela's husband also pointed out his father across the creek, who is 89 years old and has a bull that he lends for free to homes in the community that may have one or two cows. It was pretty amazing to hear as well that beyond this act of serving the community, when he got too old to cultivar (to farm and grow), he gave his land in equal portions to his children, and they in turn give him the food they grow. And there was no squabbling about who was entitled to what, simply respect for their father.

However, for this farmer and for many in the community, living off the land is not enough to get by. Two of his sons work as migrant laborers in El Salvador and Costa Rica, while his baby grandchildren and their mothers stay here, looking forward to that day in months to come that they would see their husbands again. These children truly are raised by the village, and I'll bet they get some quality grandparent time too.

Meredith was escorted off to school (see below) to make sure everything was set for our craft fair later in the morning, and by 7:30 everybody was stirring and preparing their stomachs for the "energy tortillas," as we joked, because the corn was put through the same grinder as the coffee. Even with coffee-infused tortillas, it was hard to get the group moving, but our next adventure was a walk through the woods to the community garden.

 Seeing a neighbor along our walk.

Jennifer, Don Orlando, Lauri, and Luci.


Here is la huerta, the community garden, as Javier showed us. What is remarkable is that they have an experimental plot where they are trying to grow taller tomate plants and testing out maracuya (passionfruit), calabasa (squash), and other fruits and vegetables to have a healthier variety for the community. And, they are doing it organically. They fortunately have enough land to give space in between plots so that in the event one gets attacked by a plaga (a plague of insects or other unsavory natural phenomena), it will not spread to other tracts of plants. Javier along with seven women work in the garden and each have their own piece to experiment here and then apply what they have learned back on their own land. Think of this as continuing education: a place to learn, take that knowledge back to the community, and pass it on!
Don Orlando checking out the tomatoes.

Javier explaining more tricks of the trade.

The main focus of this garden is sustainability, in terms of environmental awareness, community practicality, and spreading conocimiento (knowledge). Another example of this is that little seed bag Meredith is holding. Now a typical community may have the resources to buy tons of these little plastic bags filled with seeds for the next season, but for Talolinga that investment takes time in addition to money, not to mention plastic is not exactly environmentally friendly. So Javier devised a wooden seedling box to save seeds they have harvested to plant and continue the cycle of growth and investment in their land with their resources.

 After the garden tour we ran back to Doña Angela's house to grab our crafts and head up to the school for our craft fair! We were introduced to Don Juan Carlos, the teacher in this two-room school where you will see a lot of variety in age. Our group hoped to just be able to play with the kids and that we all could learn from each other as well. We definitely learned a thing or two about classroom organization, lesson planning, and flexibility! The youth took the lead on the warm-up game outside with a ton of energy and smiles to play a name game to start the day...

... and Francisco translated the demonstration!

"¡Hola! ¿Cómo te llamas?"




During the game I realized I had run out of memory on my camera, so I was hurriedly deleting photos to be discarded (As cute as the baby chickens are, I probably had about 30 pictures of them... It still was hard to pick my favorite five though! Or ten...), and as I was multi-tasking and watching the game, Javier came over to talk. We ended up talking about education and community, and he asked about our church since he had shown us Talolinga's. Somehow we ended up talking about the Bible, and he said it is his favorite book. He asked me what my favorite verse is, to which I replied 1 Corinthians 13, a good chunk of it, about knowledge, and trust, and love (I'd never had to think about how to say that in Spanish before - thankfully it was an easy transition to "Corintios"). I reciprocated the question, and I cannot remember his words in Spanish but I at least figured out that it was Philippians 4: 12-13: "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength." It is truly evident in how he lives his life and how he wants to serve. In addition to being at the forefront in terms of education and sustainability in this community, he is also becoming quite a spiritual leader, and he is only 19. Pretty amazing. 
 
"Soul Train" went splendidly and got a lot of people laughing, and then we split into five craft stations where the youth partnered with adults to lead crafts, and with my revived camera memory card, I floated around documenting. We found it was hard to get the kids talking to us at all, perhaps we were just too foreign or our Spanish was not good enough, but they seemed to enjoy the crafts, especially the pulseras (bracelets) and face painting.

Jennifer running the popsicle stick picture frames.

Luci and Joy prepping the face paint.

Laurie's bracelet bonding.

Paul and Chris demonstrating "God's eyes."

Even the teacher was up for a temporary tattoo drawing! 

 And Joy got Javier and Don Orlando in on the fun.
 


Don and Cody telling stories with pipe cleaner people.

Joy with a Harry Potter scar and the Nica flag for the boy.

 And the youth finished the day with a rousing rendition of "Head, shoulders, knees, and toes," also as "Cabeza, hombros, piernas, pies."

And a group photo!

Back at Doña Angela's, Meredith encouraged us to take the time to reflect on our two days in this beautiful community. Here are a few of our currents:
- Just as a community like Carlos Nuñez hosting a delegation for the first time is an impactful experience, so is hosting usually only one delegation per year for Talolinga. And we ourselves are having our singular Talolinga experience firsthand, so both cultures are setting standards for each other to connect experience to what we had learned and assumed prior.
- We can also connect the rural Nicaraguan experience to the other side of the immigration debate we often hear so much about. While we see men working as our migrant laborers in our own country, we see and can empathize with the women caring for each other in this community. The nuclear family is not as vital as the extended family network here as you may not see your husband for months. This was hard for us to imagine with our technology-driven and technology-connected society. Not being able email our families and friends back home while we were here? Perspective re-centering helped us admire the strength of these women and this community as well as inspire gratefulness for what are now just normal conveniences to us. This definitely hit home as I had been in China for a trimester and got to Skype my parents weekly so they knew I was still alive and as my boyfriend is preparing for four months abroad while I'm back in the U.S. - thank goodness for Skype!
- Here a shift to more diverse vegetables and fruit will probably mean a larger variety than some of the neighborhoods down the mountain, and it definitely comes with more nutritional awareness as well.
- Life is just so much simpler here. You get up with the sun, you work hard, you take care of your family, and you go to bed on a much more natural rhythm. And you are surrounded by natural beauty. We questioned, with all of this fresh air and fresh food, why would you leave? Because people cannot make money here. It truly is unfortunate that the modern world has encroached on this way of life and made surviving without finding work in other countries nearly impossible, but some advances and especially how this community is adapting in sustainable ways will hopefully allow Talolinga to flourish simply and beautifully.

For our last meal, we were treated to some scrambled eggs and a fresca in addition to the tortillas and rice and beans. And then it became time to say our goodbyes to the Talolinga community, its people, the cows, the bats, and the chickens too. Our "flowery goodbyes" as the Spanish translates and as Meredith jokes. Kira had made a friendship bracelet for Doña Angela, and we wanted to make sure we could maintain contact with this community and support its people, especially with Javier's passion and the work he is doing.

One last group picture.

 Laurie got to take one of our bestias down the mountain to save her knees, and as she rode like a pro, the rest of us trekked down will still-frequent stops to make sure all the splinter groups were within eyesight of each other. Leif and Cody once in a while found a good shortcut and of course the walk down was made more entertaining with their antics, but I enjoyed having some good girl-talks with Kira, Luci, and Joy too.

Two and a half hours later, when it really perhaps should have taken us half that time... it felt wonderful to climb up a little hill and see a bus that looked like ours! And as for the two guys who were roofing by one throwing the tiles up to the other yesterday? The roof was finished. We thanked our guides and our bestias, ensured they were fed, and rode on our microbus the final hour and a half from Santa Rosa to León. 

This time we unfortunately arrived at Don Martin's a half hour late, and my host mom said she had gotten there with the kids a half hour early, so understandably they were starving. We had a nice walk home, chatting about the day, and passing enthusiastic church services and loud music (they apparently happen every day except Mondays). Jenifer had already had a long day with a lot of home and farmacia responsibilities, but at least she will let me help with the dishes now! And it was so cute that the boys wanted to help me too. For as mischievous as they are sometimes, they just needed a good energy outlet and wanted to be helpful. So even though dishwashing perhaps took four times as long as I could have done it by myself, Diddier and Diederich were so proud they could show me they could do it too. 

It was so nice to just sit and talk with my host mom until who-knows-what-time, with interruptions from the kids of course, until they fell asleep on the couch with their bottles. Jenifer wanted to see my Talolinga pictures and asked about my being a photographer, if I could do that for a job. Maybe! To get paid for something I love and would do anyways is just an added bonus. 

Things I learned from my host mama tonight:
- She wants me to come back to Nica! 
- She has to get medicamientos, medications, for her pharmacy in Managua. She used to go every 15 days, but now with the kids she can only go monthly, sometimes only every two months. 
- I asked her if she likes baseball, since it is quite popular here, and she said she thinks it's okay, but her dad loved it and even played in a Nicaraguan professional league. The unfortunate part of that is he practiced every day and did not spend time with the family, so that is why her parents split and her mom had to go work in Costa Rica.
- She wants to do civil rights law to defend people from injustice, in her words, and after this final year of university, she will become a lawyer already! However, she would need more schooling beyond that to be able to specialize. Even though she had to grow up fast with marriage and children, Jenifer is smart and still has big dreams, and I wish her all the best.